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Creating the Peace You Desire in Your Relationships: Letting Go of Control

We all desire harmony in our family relationships, but sometimes, the need to control can overshadow our good intentions. It’s natural to want the best for our loved ones, but when this turns into micromanaging, it can strain bonds and create anxiety. Let’s explore the struggle with control and how to release it for a more trusting and harmonious family dynamic.

The Struggle with Control

When we try to control others, it often stems from a place of fear and anxiety. We worry about their wellbeing, their choices, and how their actions might impact us. This constant vigilance can create tension, not only within ourselves but also in our relationships. Over time, this can lead to resentment and conflict, eroding the very connections we wish to protect.

Tips to Release Control and Embrace Trust

Practice Mindfulness:

  • Being present in the moment helps you focus on what you can control—your own reactions and emotions. When you feel the urge to control, take a deep breath and center yourself. Communicate Openly:

  • Share your feelings with your family in a compassionate and non-judgmental way. Express your concerns and listen to their perspectives. Open dialogue can foster understanding and reduce the need to control. Set Healthy Boundaries:

  • Establish clear boundaries for yourself and respect those of your family members. This can help everyone feel more secure and respected, reducing the impulse to control each other.

Incorporating Inner Voice Therapy and SEFI

In addition to these tips, incorporating Inner Voice Therapy can be incredibly beneficial. This therapy helps release past traumas and trapped emotions, allowing you to move forward with a lighter heart. Using the SEFI (Subtle Energy Frequency Imprinter), you can broadcast frequencies of love, forgiveness, inner peace, along with Bach Flower essences and homeopathy for anxiety. Creating a playlist of these frequencies will assist you emotionally as you begin to create new thought patterns and new action steps. These holistic tools can support your journey towards letting go of control and embracing a more peaceful, trusting dynamic with your family.

Affirmations for EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques)

  1. "Even though I feel the need to control, I deeply and completely accept myself."

  2. "I release my fears and embrace trust in my family."

  3. "I am at peace with allowing others to make their own choices."

  4. "I am trusting in the process of life."

Essential Oils to Balance Emotions


Known for its calming properties, lavender can help reduce anxiety and promote relaxation.


This oil can help ground your emotions and enhance your spiritual connection, fostering a sense of peace.

Bergamot: Bergamot can uplift your mood and help alleviate feelings of stress and tension.

Scriptures to Trust and Let Go of Control

Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV):

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."

Philippians 4:6-7 (NIV):

"Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

Matthew 6:34 (NIV): "Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."

By practicing mindfulness, open communication, and setting healthy boundaries, you can begin to release the need for control. Using affirmations, essential oils, and leaning on Scripture can further support you on this journey to a more trusting and peaceful family dynamic. Remember, trusting in the process and having faith can transform your relationships, bringing more love and harmony into your life.

My goal is to always help you live in Divine health with a prosperous soul.

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